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Lindsay Kelly

Lindsay Kelly

Founder of Lewxi, Content Creator and Marketing Strategist

Caregiver to her husband, mom to six, and a creator with nearly 1.5 million followers who started by telling the truth into her phone

The story behind the work

Lindsay Kelly is a content creator and marketing strategist in Utah with an audience of nearly 1.5 million followers and more than one billion views. Her family calls her Lew. She is a mom to six kids, and in 2019 her husband was diagnosed with progressive MS. Overnight she became his full-time caregiver, both parents to her children, and the provider for her household. She is the founder of Lewxi, named for her nickname and the Roman numeral for eleven, a sign of hope.

In 2022, after her husband was able to move into an assisted living home, Lindsay started telling the truth about caregiving on TikTok. Women wrote to her from across the country and across the world, some still pre-diagnosis and finally finding words for what they were living. A group of seven, including women in England and Ireland, began meeting on Zoom just to talk. She expanded to Instagram and Facebook and built a free caregiver support group of more than 3,000 people. Through Lewxi, she hand selects families to give back to, funded by purchases and donations.

On the YES! Women's Network Podcast, Lindsay joined Michele Morley for a candid conversation about caregiving, identity, and telling the truth out loud. She talked about grieving the same person over and over, what it cost her to become visible, and why she believes a belief in unworthiness is what keeps most women silent. She named the three things that held her together: the gym, her scriptures, and forgiving herself for the dishes left in the sink. She also shared how she protected her kids' view of their dad.

Ideas from the conversation

Useful takeaways to carry into your own life and work.

01

Sharing your story heals you as much as it helps the person reading it.

Lindsay began posting to keep other caregivers from feeling alone. What she did not expect were the messages back. Strangers telling her their own stories in her DMs helped her work through things she was still carrying herself.

02

What keeps women silent is unworthiness, not a lack of story.

Lindsay says the block is the belief that your story is not important enough, impactful enough, or ready enough, and that it has to be perfect before it counts. Her reframe: social media is a canvas and it is your page.

03

There is no such thing as balance when something like this arises.

Lindsay stopped chasing it. Some days the same dishes sat in the sink because something else mattered more and she had nothing left to give them. Forgiving herself for that was one of the three things that kept her standing.

04

Name the disease out loud so your kids can separate it from the person.

When her husband's cognitive symptoms showed up, Lindsay told her children plainly that this was the disease, not who their dad really is, and that he is an amazing person. She still says it. Her kids grew more independent and more compassionate.

05

Being visible means being willing to be misunderstood.

The hate came with the reach, including public comments from people in her own life that knocked her flat. Lindsay decided the good outweighs it, because no other time in history has put a platform in every woman's hand.

Your experience could be the conversation someone needs.

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