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Kirby Heyborne

Kirby Heyborne

Emmy and Grammy Nominated Actor, Musician, and Narrator

He discovered on a film set that gratitude produces the same tears as grief, without the damage, and he has built a life on that finding.

The story behind the work

Kirby Heyborne is an Emmy and Grammy nominated actor, musician, and narrator known for heartfelt storytelling, humor, and performances that lift the people watching. He hosts the Emmy nominated TV series Making Good and the global RootsTech conference, where his interviews with guests including Kristin Chenoweth and Sean Astin have reached millions. He is also the co-founder of the Help Them See Foundation, a 501c3 that funds productions meant to entertain and illuminate light. His faith and his family sit at the center of all of it.

With more than 2,000 audiobooks to his name, including Charlotte's Web with Meryl Streep, Kirby is one of the most recognized voices in narration. On screen he played the father in Faith of Angels, the true story of a young man lost in an abandoned mine for five days. Eight years and six seasons of Making Good have taken him to nonprofits around the world. The first Help Them See film, a comedy about a man whose kindness led the East German government to assume he was a spy, goes into production soon.

On the YES! Women's Network Podcast, Kirby joined Michele Morley for a conversation about gratitude, marriage, and the small daily choices that hold a family together. He talked about the day his wife asked why he reached for his worst imagined grief to produce tears on camera, and what happened when he tried gratitude instead. He spoke candidly about 29 years of marriage, about hearing no in roughly 99 of every 100 auditions, and about why serving shoulder to shoulder with someone connects hearts in a way serving for them does not.

Ideas from the conversation

Useful takeaways to carry into your own life and work.

01

Gratitude can reach the same emotional depth as pain, at a lower cost.

Filming Faith of Angels, Kirby produced tears by imagining his family dead and gone. The next day he came to set grateful instead, for his director, his faith, his family. Same tears, he says, but one day was the worst day and the other was a thrilling one.

02

Security at home makes you freer everywhere else.

Acting in Los Angeles meant hearing no about 99 percent of the time. Coming home to a wife who loved him for who he was made the rejection digestible, and once he knew he would rather be home than book any part, he auditioned less desperately.

03

Say your gratitude out loud before you get out of bed.

Almost every morning, Kirby's first words are that he is thankful for his wife and excited for another day with her. When he travels, he calls as she wakes. He looks over, sees the greatest gift in his life, says so, and the mood follows.

04

Serving alongside someone connects hearts in a way serving for them does not.

Six seasons of Making Good showed him what happens when you work beside people. As a kid you serve because your parents make you. As an adult, standing shoulder to shoulder, something changes. Choose one project where you are next to someone, not above them.

05

Make room for tears before anyone reaches for the joy.

In Kirby's home, heavy moments get space first. His children know they can bring anything to him and his wife, and that they will be listened to before anyone tries to lighten it. Two of his three children are now married, and the sibling group chat excludes him, which he counts as a win.

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